What started off as a New Yearsa国际传媒檚 resolution transformed into a shouting match, misgendering and a woman kicked out of the Shesa国际传媒檚 Fit section of Abbotsfordsa国际传媒檚 Trevor Linden Fitness on Jan. 15.

Parneet Khangura, 22, of Abbotsford told The News that she wanted to start off 2024 on a brand new fitness journey to try to stay healthy.

Part of the reason she signed up at Trevor Linden was because of the Shesa国际传媒檚 Fit womensa国际传媒檚-only section of the gym. Khangura said she identifies as a woman, but prefers wearing what is considered typical mensa国际传媒檚-style clothing. She regularly wears baggy clothes, unisex T-shirts and hats.

She said she arrived to the Abbotsford location on Jan. 15 and began using the treadmill. It was perfectly normal for the first 15 to 20 minutes, but then she noticed a woman to her right staring intently at her.

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Khangura said she decided to ignore it and wondered if maybe she was overreacting. She said she suffers from social anxiety and thought maybe her mind was creating something that wasnsa国际传媒檛 there.

She got off the machine a few moments later, and the woman approached Khangura. She initially thought the woman wanted to use the machine she was exercising on.

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Khangura said she was stunned that a grown woman would speak to a fellow patron in that way. She said she almost didnsa国际传媒檛 believe the words that were coming out of her mouth.

sa国际传媒淚 was super self-conscious because of my social anxiety and it felt like everyone was looking at me as she was yelling at me,sa国际传媒� she said.

Khangura tried to tell the woman that she was not a man, but the woman was refusing to believe her. Khangura then decided to leave the gym entirely as she felt uncomfortable. The woman continued to berate her as she was leaving.

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Khangura informed the front desk of the harassment and began filming the encounter with her cellphone. The woman proceeded to get into a shouting match with staff about Khangura being in the gym. She insisted that Khangura is not a female.

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The staff member in the video mentioned that the woman had also been racist to other members and they had received other complaints about her behaviour. The woman was eventually asked to leave the gym.

Khangura said the womansa国际传媒檚 behaviour was shocking and now she doesnsa国际传媒檛 feel comfortable returning to the gym.

sa国际传媒淚 can understand her point that she might have confused me for a man because I do present myself in a masculine way,sa国际传媒� she said.

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Khangura said police were called to the gym following the incident, but she has not heard about any followup.

Carl Ulmer, the managing partner and chief operating officer for L & L Signature Fitness Group, which runs the gym, stated that they were made aware of the incident and were pleased with how staff responded.

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He added that they do not tolerate inappropriate and intimidating communication within their facilities.

sa国际传媒淚t is important for us to emphasize that our dress code only mandates fitness attire throughout all areas of our facilities, without regard to orientation, culture, or personal preference,sa国际传媒� he stated.

Ulmer said the incident rocked the team at Trevor Linden Fitness, but he is satisfied with how they dealt with it. He said his team always responds swiftly to these types of rare incidents to ensure all gym users can work out in a location that is non-intimidating.

Khangura questioned why the woman was allowed to continue to exercise there despite complaints from other members that she was racist towards them. She has not returned to the Abbotsford location since the incident.

She did hear from a representative from Trevor Linden Fitness, who apologized for what occurred and she was also offered complimentary training sessions.

sa国际传媒淚 am afraid when people look at me they might have similar thoughts so it makes me a little self-conscious,sa国际传媒� she said.

She added that this entire incident should make people think before assuming things about others.

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