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Chilliwack woman shares her leap-year love story

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Isobel Boylan, seen holding her wedding photo in her Chilliwack home on Feb. 22, 2024, shared her leap year love story with The Chilliwack Progress. (Jenna Hauck/ Chilliwack Progress)

Longtime Chilliwack resident Isobel Boylan has a soft spot in her heart for when a leap year rolls around.

The 2024 leap year would have marked her 68th wedding anniversary.

This week Isobel is remembering with fondness the day she took a leap of faith and proposed to Fred Charles Boylan.

It was at the very outset of their leap year love story, which began in Aberdeen, Scotland, where they both originally hailed from.

Her beloved husband, Fred, passed away in Chilliwack over two years ago, but Isobel, 88, still vividly remembers the day they met.

It was at the Leap Year Dance on leap day, Feb. 29, 1956 at the Palais Ballroom in Aberdeen.

Isobel had been working as a window dresser in a clothing shop. One day she told her co-workers she was going to attend the big dance with her friend, Ruby.

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The two friends made a pact that the one who sees them home after the dance would be the one they ask to marry.

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When Isobel first set eyes on Fred, he was sitting on the sidelines at the dance.

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And so she did. They danced all night. When he asked to see her home, she said yes.

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Isobel Boylan, seen holding her wedding photo in her Chilliwack home on Feb. 22, 2024, shared her leap year love story with The Chilliwack Progress. (Jenna Hauck/ Chilliwack Progress)

They walked for a spell and Fred told Isobel he was on leave from the British Royal Air Force.

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He was quite shocked, until she explained it was a leap-year pact that she made with Ruby.

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Fred walked Isobel home again.

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Then the leave was over and he reported back to the army base, RAF Wittering in Stamford, England, in the county of Lincolnshire.

They promised to write to each other.

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Then his leave got cancelled so she decided to go to Stamford to meet him there.

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They went to the George Hotel, the nicest place in town.

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Things were progressing nicely.

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So they did, on July 7, only four months and one week after their first meeting.

It was a modest wedding with just family in attendance, she had her wedding dress made.

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She and Fred raised three children, and eventually moved to Chilliwack where they settled for the past 33 years.

They shared eight grandchildren, and five great-grandchildren. For their 30th wedding, they renewed their vows and held an even fancier party than the original wedding celebration.

This year would have marked their 68th anniversary, prompting Isobel to ask the age-old question:

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Isobel Boylan, seen holding her wedding photo in her Chilliwack home on Feb. 22, 2024, shared her leap year love story with The Chilliwack Progress. (Jenna Hauck/ Chilliwack Progress)


Jennifer Feinberg

About the Author: Jennifer Feinberg

I have been a Chilliwack Progress reporter for 20+ years, covering city hall, Indigenous, business, and climate change stories.
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