Consider apologizing if you are the cause of a life altering injury.
Though you wonsa国际传媒檛 know about the life altering injury if you donsa国际传媒檛 bother to inquire.
My personal injury practice is restricted to those unlikely ever to fully recover. And Isa国际传媒檝e been at this for a long time. I donsa国际传媒檛 recall a case where the offending driver bothered to check up on their victim to see how badly they were hurt. Let alone apologize for the damage they caused.
Is it because injuries are rarely apparent at the scene of a crash and you donsa国际传媒檛 realize the extent of the harm you might have caused?
That would be understandable. It is impossible to tell at the scene of most crashes whether or not vehicle occupants were even injured, because it takes time for the damaged tissues to become inflamed, stiff and painful.
And it takes months and years of struggles to get better before optimism for a full recovery is lost.
But it takes such little effort to reach out and ask. A simple phone call the next day to ask how things are going, and to offer your heart felt apology, would go a long way.
ICBC seems to understand the importance of an apology. At the beginning of most mediations, ICBCsa国际传媒檚 representatives apologize on behalf of the offending driver.
But itsa国际传媒檚 an empty apology. The offending driver is clueless.
At some point in the lawsuit, I often examine the offending driver under oath. I ask them about the standard denials made on their behalf by ICBC, that my client was not injured in the collision.
Of course, they have no clue about my clientsa国际传媒檚 injuries. I look them in the eyes and ask if they ever inquired. I never get an affirmative answer.
Is there a worry that, by apologizing, you might somehow become more legally accountable for the damage you caused?
The did away with that concern when it was passed in 2006.
The piece of legislation removes all risk of legal accountability flowing from an apology. I suspect that the governmentsa国际传媒檚 motivation for passing it was to allow for their ability to publicly deliver apologies for various historical wrong doings without compromising their ability to fight against actual accountability.
But it extends to all of us.
Even if you acknowledge fault in an apology, it does not have any affect on your insurance coverage and must not be taken into account in any determination of fault or liability. An apology cannot even be admitted in court as evidence of fault.
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I have gotten to know a grieving father from Japan who lost his daughter in a crash on the Coquihalla last Spring, 2017. His daughter had been attending university in British Columbia. In an e-mail to me shortly after that crash, he asked: sa国际传媒淒o you think itsa国际传媒檚 possible to have a letter of apology from the Jeep driver? We havensa国际传媒檛 heard from anybody of his side since the accident. Is it normal in Canada?sa国际传媒�
I guess it is. Letsa国际传媒檚 change that, shall we?
Please jack up your level of attentiveness behind the wheel to avoid causing a crash in the first place. But if you do cause a crash, please give your victim a call the next day, ask how theysa国际传媒檙e doing, and apologize.
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