It was mid-day on May 20, 2016, when a shirtless man suddenly loomed over a couch and started stabbing.
Derek Descoteau, then 20, and his girlfriend Janelle Guyatt were in the basement suite of Descoteausa国际传媒檚 dadsa国际传媒檚 house in Chemainus, eating lunch and watching a movie. Descoteau died that day from multiple knife wounds. Guyatt survived, albeit requiring several surgeries for nerve damage that will never completely heal.
Five years later, the pain still fresh and the case still before the courts, Descoteausa国际传媒檚 friends remain a constant source of comfort to his family.
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sa国际传媒淎s the five-year anniversary approaches, all the intense emotions that we first experienced on that horrific day come rushing back sa国际传媒� it seems like yesterday.sa国际传媒�
The trial of Colin John, the man accused of the second-degree murder of Descoteau and the attempted murder of Guyatt, opened in 2018, but remains unresolved sa国际传媒� partly due to a long period of determining his mental fitness to stand trial and partly due to COVID.
The future that was taken away from Descoteau for no apparent reason is still tough for the family to fathom. But the amazing will of his friends to never forget him has provided strength to Brenda, her husband Steve, Dereksa国际传媒檚 dad Paul and his wife Tammy, Dereksa国际传媒檚 sister Paula Phillips and family, and numerous other relatives.
The family had already experienced tragedy just three years before Dereksa国际传媒檚 death when his brother Dustin was killed in a car accident.
Memories of both brothers are forever linked to a memorial cruise that started after Dereksa国际传媒檚 death and the DD memorial site on the road to Port Renfrew that has grown to include a pathway, garden, seating area and overall tributes. People linked to the pair make a habit of stopping there regularly.
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Regardless, the site will always remain a place of healing.
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There has also been a memorial ball tournament in honour of the brothers that ran for two years in 2018 and sa国际传媒�19 before also being halted by COVID.
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While theresa国际传媒檚 no replacement for the losses, their family from all the friends has actually grown larger.
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Her husband added his wife isnsa国际传媒檛 someone whosa国际传媒檚 going to curl up on the couch.
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Derek was very industrious and likely would have been well set up, approaching the age of 26.
The entire family has obviously followed Johnsa国际传媒檚 case very closely. He currently remains at the Colony Farm Psychiatric Hospital in Coquitlam, pending the continuation of his trial.
The prosecution side of the trial wrapped up in August of 2019 before the defence lobbied for an assessment of Johnsa国际传媒檚 mental fitness. He was deemed fit to continue by the Review Board in October of 2020.
There will be a formality this August for the court to confirm he is fit to stand trial thatsa国际传媒檚 due to resume in mid-November with the defence side of the case.
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