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B.C. teen excluded from prom after chronic illness keeps her away from school

Triss Hunter of Mission was told she missed too many days of school, cansa国际传媒檛 go to the graduation event

A Mission teenager who suffers from a chronic illness has been told she cansa国际传媒檛 attend her prom because she has missed too many classes.

Triss Hunter, a Grade 11 student at Mission Secondary School, says she has missed about 100 days of school, but not because she skips out or tries to ditch class.

Hunter has a condition called Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome. Itsa国际传媒檚 a disorder that affects the connective tissues supporting the skin, bones and blood vessels.

According to Hunter, the condition causes chronic pain and dislocations that can occur at any time.

Last week, she found out that ll of those absences were the reason she will not be permitted to go to prom.

Hunter and her mother Sarah donsa国际传媒檛 think the decision is fair.

sa国际传媒淢y grades are not perfect, because I do miss a lot of school. But Isa国际传媒檓 getting passing grades. Isa国际传媒檓 passing all my classes, but for prom, itsa国际传媒檚 just the attendance,sa国际传媒 Triss said.

Although she is in Grade 11, Triss said this is her last year at Mission Secondary so she applied to go to the prom, along with her friend Isaiah.

After filling out the paperwork, Triss says her application was denied by the school principal.

She and her mom appealed, talking to the principal, but the school did not change its mind.

Then she took her case to the Mission school board, but found out yesterday that the board had sided with the school.

Triss said the situation isnsa国际传媒檛 fair and wonders if she was supposed to miss her therapy sessions and doctorsa国际传媒檚 appointments.

sa国际传媒淚s school more important than my health?sa国际传媒 she asks.

Triss said the school indicated that most of her absences were unexcused sa国际传媒 which usually means no one phoned in to inform the school or no doctorsa国际传媒檚 notes were provided.

But Triss says she doesnsa国际传媒檛 know ahead of time that she is going to suffer an attack.

sa国际传媒淭here are sometimes when I miss weeks of school or even a month. Or there are some days when I can go to school for one class then the pain gets so bad that I cansa国际传媒檛 go to the rest of my classes.

sa国际传媒淎ll my teachers are supportive. They know I have a disability sa国际传媒 they see me every day. They know my struggle, but because the school board and everyone else doesnsa国际传媒檛 see it sa国际传媒 itsa国际传媒檚 inside of me and you cansa国际传媒檛 really see it on the outside sa国际传媒 they think itsa国际传媒檚 all in my head.sa国际传媒

When she does attend school, Triss always brings her service dog, Meadow.

sa国际传媒淪he has been trained for anxiety and mobility issues.sa国际传媒

Trisssa国际传媒 mother, Sarah, says the events of the last few weeks have taken a toll on her daughter.

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Sarah is still hopeful that the situation can be resolved, but the prom is just a week away, May 12, and time is running out.

sa国际传媒淪he has already bought her outfit. Itsa国际传媒檚 sad that she cansa国际传媒檛 go,sa国际传媒 Sarah said.

sa国际传媒淚tsa国际传媒檚 like they are punishing her sa国际传媒a国际传媒

sa国际传媒淔or having a disability,sa国际传媒 says Triss, finishing her momsa国际传媒檚 sentence.

When asked for comment, Mission superintendent of schools, Angus Wilson, said he could not discuss individual students.

However, he can say that parents and students are sa国际传媒渁ll very aware of the criteriasa国际传媒 to attend prom.

sa国际传媒淭hey are given many opportunities to resolve concerns and situations,sa国际传媒 Wilson said.

He added that, as far as attendance is concerned, parents or students sa国际传媒渉ave a number of weekssa国际传媒 to call in to explain and excuse attendance issues.

sa国际传媒淭he school is very flexible about making allowances and making accommodations and ways to resolve concerns and so on,sa国际传媒 said Wilson, adding both sides have to work together in these situations.

Wilson also said the sa国际传媒減riority for prom, of course, is Grade 12 students.sa国际传媒

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Kevin Mills

About the Author: Kevin Mills

I have been a member of the media for the past 35 years and became editor of the Mission Record in February of 2015.
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